Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Communication. Important!

There was a pregnant lady who had internal bleeding in her brain and admitted to intensive care unit. Cause of the bleeding was still being investigated. According to the husband, he heard from her friend that she was taking a medicine, but he was not sure what was that. Then he heard from the sister that the lady had complaint of tension and felt like seeing Dr. But both the sister and the husband were not sure if she had seen doctor. then he heard from her colleague that the lady would take the medicine whenever she felt breathless... I think the husband must have felt really helpless as he is clueless.

As noticed, there are many 'heard of'... Why the lady was not able to share that with her husband. Spouse should be someone that we can share anything including sad and happy moments, rite? But, what keep us to reserve and backoff from telling?

This story reminded me that communication is so important between husband and wife, be it simple talk, empty talk ( like, Oh you are back when he/she is obviously coming through the house door:P) but must talk to each other as it keep communication open and we then feel comfortable to share. Sometime we are too occupied with work and children that we forget to talk to each other or spend quality time together. Hm.....cannot say no time, must make time.

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